There is much to life than regret.

Life is beautiful. It always is, even in regrets, even in mistakes in achievements, promotions, demotions, life is beautiful in every form.

The problem is not failure, the problem is how we are not taught to handle it. We are always told to work hard to succeed and all the success stories are recited to us but, why not teach us how to handle failure in attempting success.

Its not a new thing to fail while attempting and achieving something new. We all know that and tell others this when they are down that failures are a stepping stone to success. But we as kids are not told how to handle success and maybe that’s why we dont know how to always be self motivated.

Now its not that we cant acquire this ability, I just want to put this thing in your head that if you dont have ability to handle stress, simply learn it and practice self motivation. Its the key to success.

We belong to a tech era and disability and inability are just some old school words that dont exist now, only if you believe in yourself.

Lets explain this with the help of a few examples,

What physical disability can you have, that give you an excuse to not succeed, born with just one hand? or without any hand? Or without legs? Lets imagine the worst of all situation and the biggest excuse that someone born without a limb has no chance to succeed? The answer to all these is nooooo. This is no reason to cry for your fate. Atleast not after you know about nick vujicic a limbless million dollar entrepreneur and a motivational speaker.

Progeria is a rare congenital disorder that leads to early and rapid aging, Sam Berns is a progeria patient who told the world that there is no excuse to not make a mark in this world.

There are a lot more examples to tell you, like giving one more, what do you think is the most important thing for a mountaineer? To keep ones legs healthy , yes that is right but how can you climb if you dont have a leg? Yes its difficult and your mountaineering dreams come to an end if your legs arnt a part of you or even if they aren’t perfectly fine. Well that just was proved wrong, Arunima Sinha is the Indian mountaineer who just climbed a mountain on one leg. Which mountain? well not very fancy, she just triumphed the tallest peak in the world. Yes that’s right Arunima Sinha climbed mount Everest on one leg. Thats indeed incredible, she just showed that whatever you dream is achievable if you put the right amount of hard work in it.

Perseverance is something that should top your check list of ingredients that make success happen.

There was not much these people did. Infact just one step lead them to do whatever they did. And that was they believed in themselves, instead of finding reasons for their inability to complete their dream, they worked for actually achieving it.

They did never regret their condition, never pitied themselves and never did they let us pity them. Them all made themselves seem so great and made us all respect them. That is the approach to a successful life and that shoould be you if you want to succeed.

Dont forget, perseverance, perpetual efforts and everlasting hope to get these efforts work. This is enough to make you what you want to be.

Make yourself proud. God bless you.

Barriors that hold us back are in our, head.

“No, I cant do this” “Its too difficult ” “Nobody have ever done it, how am I supposed to do that” these thoughts are not merely the reason which put us down but these are things that subconsciously makes environment more negative for others too. You will always see that a self motivated person has a lot of friends around him and that is the perfect example of how people are attracted to persons with positive psychology.

When a child says ” I will became the prime minister of the country”, people laugh, although they just take it lightly and are not really making fun of the kid but this laugh bullies the subconscious mind of a child. He starts feeling subconsciously that he is not worth it or that it is quite impossible for him to achive that. But this isnt true.

This de-motivation of the subconscious is not just a day’s work, but it is the result of constant pinches that we get but we dont even realise that it is there. We forget to take this into account and so you might possibly be thinking that its insane what I am speaking. Let me help you get better view of my thinking with the help of an example/ or lets say a fact.

How many of you have people are there in your life who think that they will fail if they start anything big? Most of them? Maybe you are also one of them? Its ok. Its perfectly normal but its not ok. We are conditioned subconsciously to think that any big thing is beyond our reach to achive however its just a moment away. Just that moment, at which you break all the shackles of your bullied subconscious mind and tell it that you can do it, rather you will do it. Its your first step on a ladder to success. However just thinking wont do any good unless and untill you make that first effort to work for your dream. I want to tell you and you should be-aware of this, this people dont see your dream. They wont appreciate what you are making cuz they dont have the vision to see it. But once the dream is fully completed in reality people will go crazy. They would be proud on you and give everyone your example. Its you. You are the only person who is with you and who is gonna be the true support though out your downfalls. But you see it, your dream, so dont ever give up trying. Never stop growing.

You dont need to take all the shit what people say. You should listen to each and every argument and critic that’s been raised against you. But Its further more important to let those things go out of your head if they are not trying to improve you.

The is one one person who is surely gonna be with you throughout that effort, and that is you. Dont ever lose hope on yourself because your body hasn’t left you. Every cell in your body is trying to make you a better person, trying to work hard on you. That is billions and trillions of support. Thats more than enough for you.

“Belive in yourself and not in the world, no matter how knowledgeable they are they cant ever be right about you, because you define yourself, they dont.”

All the best.